Ways of Encouraging Positive Behaviour

Keep praising positive behaviour
Tactical ignorance of behaviour eg ignoring negative behaviour as a first step depending on the behaviour
Avoiding using the word ‘naughty’ and try ‘I don’t like it when you ...’
Give the child eye contact so they know you are aware of their action
Rule reminders and direction
Be consistent, direction and commands given to children must always be followed through. Children will trust adults and feel secure if those adults follow through
Try to distract or divert behaviour, eg ‘Would you come and help me please?’
Be close by to the child
Be clear with requests and instructions. Children appreciate explanations and suggestiongs for alternative ways to act. Explain why you would like them to do something
Endeavour not to say ‘no’ without offering a reason or alternative
Use a firm voice without shouting
If there is a victim, give them extra attention
Talk to the child about their unacceptable behaviour so they can see the consequences of their actions, eg if another child has been hurt and is crying
Ask the child to make-up by saying sorry or giving a cuddle to the person who is hurt. Then praise them for doing this.
Keep a sense of humour!